Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Still No Visitors Please.


It’s Tuesday. Not much has changed since my last post. Right now everyone thinks its better to let the nurses and doctors be with Andrew, every time he sees one of us he gets agitated and needs to be sedated. They have been sedating him every 3-4 hours with Adivan. The nurses keep him calm somehow, whenever he sees anyone he’s related to he tries to get up and leave. I think all of us under estimated how strong Andrew is, he is physically strong as an ox! It took 8 people to keep him in his bed, two of which were huge men.



They were supposed to do Andrews spinal tap, ophthalmology examination and biopsy yesterday all while he was put under. They ended up just doing the spinal and ophthalmology exam, they are going to do the biopsy today now.

 It seems like everyone is on the same page with trying to get all his procedures done as quick as possible, get some results as quick as possible, confirm his diagnosis so we can move to the next step. A psychologist is supposed to visit Andrew this morning to do an evaluation and to see if there is some kind of medication that will help him cooperate with us. Speech pathology can’t even go in there and talk to him or do an evaluation because he has his mind set on escaping from the hospital whenever he is not sedated.

 We are worried about what is going to happen with Andrew once he is released from the hospital. Who knows how long he will be in the hospital, if it’s at the rate they do their tests and get their results were probably looking at a really long haul. Hopefully some kind of medication will help Andrew focus and work on being able to communicate with us so he can come home with us. In the condition he is in now, there is no way either of my parents would be able to take care of him at home.  It’s hard to tell if he knows what he’s doing and he just wants to leave or if he has no clue of what’s going on and is losing his mind.  It’s like he’s trapped in his own body and thinks he’s ok, but he’s not. We don’t even know if he knows he had a stroke. Liz and I were talking last night about IF it is MELAS Syndrome, life expectancy is 5 years from when your “Stroke like symptoms” start. And now the doctors are saying he had one in 2007 that no one knew about, it showed on his MRI in 2007 and no one brought it to anyone’s attention. They were looking for other things in the MRI in 2007, we don’t know if the doctors missed it or what happened, but none of us knew he had a stroke in 2007 until his doctor he has now reviewed past MRI pictures. How does something like this get over looked?? So, if he does have MELAS Syndrome, does his life expectancy start from 2007 or 2012? I know I am jumping the gun, but these are our thoughts and something I think we need to prepare ourselves for. We are praying that there is a light at the end of the tunnel, this is just so unfair. Andrew is so young, he has not experienced so many things in life.

 Please keep praying for him, we are hoping to get some results back soon so we can move forward, even if they could absolutely say that what he has is not MELAS, I would be good with that.

More Later...

8 comments:

  1. Thank you for the update Katie.

    I know I'm not the only one who is constantly refreshing this site to see if there's a new update. We all appreciate it. <3 Jess

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  2. No problem, i was suprised to see there has already been almost 400 pageviews since i started it. Its good to know so many people care about Andrew =)

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  3. Oh BTW Jess, i thought that picture of you and Andrew was a really good one of him so i added it to the blog, hope you dont mind! I had a really hard time looking at his pictures today, i started crying at work. Its hard to think about, that we may not see Andrew like that again, ever. =(

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    1. I dont mind at all. I'm so sorry Katie. It's not fair or right that this is happening to him. Have faith in the fact he's strong and in no way resigned to his current state. Of course, its just as easy to write encouraging words as it is to cry over seeing his pictures...done both. Hugs. Jess

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  4. Katie and Family,

    Andrew is very much in my prayers, and I so hope his condition starts turning around for the better. Please let us (Romanczuk's) know if there is ANYTHING we can do to make this easier on your family. Let your mom know that we can take care of the house, get mail, etc if she needs to spend the night, and I would love to make a meal for you if needed. I have so many happy memories of Andrew, and we are all seeing how strong he is to go through this. Few people have strength like he does, and we can all learn from people like him. I will continue to pray for him, and reach out if you all need anything.

    Sincerely,

    Ashley

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  5. I am so saddended by all of this! Please tell your Mom and Granmda Lois my thoughts, prayers and a big hug are sent their way. You have a very special family with a faith that is so very strong. Thank you for creating this blog and keeping us all up to date.

    Prayers and hugs to all!

    Love,
    Cousin Cathy

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  6. This is Andrews mom. This week starts what should have been the beginning of our vacation to Houghton Lake.I have convinced my girls to join the rest of the family up north to try to clear their heads, spend some time with the people who love us all the most, and perhaps get a glimpse of a smile or even laughter. I'm just adding a few details here for those of you who look at this blog day after day.
    Since Wednesday, the 4th of July, several things have taken place, several conversations with doctors and staff have been heard, Andrew is going thru so many phases of testing and phases of emotional and mental issues. He's had good days and bad. We are still waiting for test results to come in. In the mean time we sit with him, try to communicate with him and comfort him. We are keeping his visitors to his parents and sisters for now. It's hard for him to realize that when he sees the people who love him most, that he can't go home with them. To keep him in the best frame of mind, we ask to keep the visits limited to us. Hopefully things will turn for the better and he can see the people he loves and be able to deal with it.
    It is Saturday the 7th as I write this. I can tell you that last night and today we very good days.We are definetely in this one for the long haul tho. Please keep the prayers coming. If prayers help to heal, there is no doubt he will get thru this. Please look for further updates from his sisters.

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  7. Still praying over here. We miss seeing Andre around the neighborhood.

    Regards,
    Ashley

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