Monday, July 23, 2012

Unfortunately i have some devastating news to share with you all. On Friday at the family meeting, there were many doctors, the head of neurology, the x-ray techs, the ICU doctors and all of the doctors who have been treating Andrew since the beginning of his hospital stay. They covered all of the MRI scans with us and basically said they cant stop the seizing. Every time they try to lower the dose of medication (Coma meds) he starts seizing again right away. On top of that, all the damage the stroke did, and the 19 hours of seizing when he had his Grand Mal seizure and the seizures he had on top of that, that if he made it through this crisis his quality of life would be very very poor. The brain was damaged in all parts except a small portion in the frontal lope. The part of the brain that controls speech, swallow, sight, hearing, cognitivity, ect.. all of this was gone. At this point we were terrified for Andrew, we couldn't imagine him having to wake up like this, on life support, on all these machines and IV's not being able to communicate with anyone, not being able to see anyone, hear anyone. The doctors wanted to prepare us that at any moment Andrew could pass away.

Unfortunately last night after one  hell of a fight Andrew passed away at 9:36pm. All of Andrews close family and friends were with him. He passed very peacefully. There is no doubt in my mind that Andrew is in Heaven right now with his Grandpa Don playing Yahtzee and teaching him how to play Domino's. Andrew is the strongest person I have ever known, and I can not describe how hard this is going to be for our family and his many many friends to get through. Thank you all for caring so much for my brother. Andrew touched so many lives in his 19 years, and was loved by so many people. My sister will be posting the funeral arrangements.

4 comments:

  1. I'm so sorry...there are no words. I love all of you.

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  2. We are so sorry for your loss. We loved Andrew and really missed having him at Houghton Lake this year. We are very thankful that we had the opportunity to share so many wonderful weeks with him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time.

    Diane and Mark Rosenthal

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  3. Bev. and Jerry RosenthalJuly 24, 2012 at 4:51 AM

    The news about Andrew (lovingly known as "AJ" to us), is so devastating.
    Andrew was a one of a kind person, never complaining but always with a smile on his face and exuding happiness.
    Our fondest memories of Andrew will be the times at Houghton Lake remembering his challenging us to "Cottage Ball" and being thrilled when he beat Jerry, or when we all played Rummy-Q and he showed us some slick moves.
    His fishing ability was awesome and we can still remember him telling us of the "big one", that he caught! How proud he was to be able to surpass all of the more experienced fishermen (and women)with their "little" catches!
    We speak for our whole family when we say that he will be greatly missed and that Houghton Lake will never be the same, however we were so fortunate to have known Andrew all of these years.
    Please feel some comfort in knowing how much love and happiness Andrew received from you, his family, and his friends!
    He made this world a much better place by being in it and taught us that in spite of what life deals us, you have to enjoy each and every day with your loved ones.
    We feel strongly that "AJ's" spirit will always be here and we are so grateful for having had the opportunity to know him.
    Sincerely and with affection,

    Bev. and Jerry Rosenthal

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  4. RIP Andrew, we will all miss you.

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